How do you get girlfriend? The key is to be yourself. When you realise that only you can make yourself happy you will portray an air of being comfortable with yourself. This is what will attract girls. They will then have the attitude that they are the one buying instead of having the sense that they are being sold to. Once you’ve attracted her and there is a connection, there will be a mutual desire to see each other in the future. Once this is established, it is important to set down the rules and expectations each of you have for the relationship and stick to them. Only then can you continue to have a relationship that lasts.